My sweet blogging friend Jenn over at Bittersweet Prims has honored me with this gorgeous award she created - The Fabulous Fall Decor award. Didn't she do a great job designing it? If you haven't been to her blog check it out. It looks so Halloweeny right now. She is very kind gal and I admire her very much for the way she handles some rather large bumps in the road that life has put in her way. She perseveres despite some things that would take many a strong person down! Thanks Jenn, I really appreciate this award!! Please don't hate me but I am going to honor the decision I made back here and not single out any blogs because I think everyone who has shown us their fall decor deserves to be honored!
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Whatcha Working On Wednesday ~~~ This is just one of the many little thing I have been working on. Last week I showed you my new craft Needle Punch, and once I got started, this little star worked up very quickly! I have to finish some other projects but once they are done, I can't wait to start another NP project. Thanks so much Karen over at Farmhouse Woolens for suggesting the right frame and for the great Valdani floss! I think I am going to make this into a little pillow to tuck into a shelf.
I also spent some time this weekend making more meals to freeze for the winter. I got about 8 quarts of a hearty Italian soup made and frozen. You know the kind - tomato based with sausage ( I use hot turkey sausage an crumble it in the ground beef), lentils, spinach, carrots, onions, and lots of garlic, basil and oregano. I add pasta to it when I serve it and of course some fresh grated parmesan. It's another of those recipes where I don't measure. And I made and froze about 6 quarts of a hearty pasts sauce. With the chili I made last week, I have quite a few meals frozen now but still want to make some chicken soup. There's just enough room in our small freezer for a few more quarts of something chickeny good.
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My DH's parents are up from their home in SC. About 15 years ago the sold their home in MA and moved to a gorgeous over 55 golf community outside Myrtle Beach. They always make a trip home for the foliage and they picked a great time to come up this year. They always bring their adorable King Charles Spaniel, Andy, with them. He is such a teeny thing compared to our grand doggy Brady!! Please meet my in laws, Herb and Jean, and Andy of course!
Look at that face! Isn't he just the cutest thing??
Mom and dad and our kids all came for dinner Saturday night and it was a nice evening. DH and Dad played golf Sunday, and I had the in laws back for soup on Sunday evening. We don't see enough of them so we squeeze in as much time as we can while they are here.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO??
By now, you all know I LOVE LOVE LOVE fall, right? Well about now, something happens that could put a wrench it, if I let it. Let me explain....
We live in a lovely suburban neighborhood. Everyone is very cordial - not quite as friendly as I would like, but after 22 years, I have come to accept that. We chat when doing our yard work (those of us that actually DO yard work or do our OWN yard work) and we return the mail every time the mail carrier gets it wrong, stuff like that. We only share our property border with one neighbor so our lot is pretty private. Those neighbors are on the dining room and living room side and we don't have windows on that northern wall of our house so we don't even see them from inside. From the house all the way back to the brook are pines and lilacs and trees that block the view of the back yard. Not that we need them because they are quiet and don't bother anyone. They are older than us by several years and have an adult son who lives at home and he is quiet too. They are the ones I would give my house key to if I needed too and they let me use the phone when our lines went dead, so you can see I trust them. Sound like great neighbors huh?? Well they really are - MOST of the year. But for a few weeks in mid October to early November, well... they do something that really bugs me. Why?? Well because they put up this:
Can you see it? It is old broom sticks, old pieces of wood and what ever other scrap stick they can find to hold up the chicken wire fence they use to keep leaves from other yards from going into their yard. The one word I use to describe it is TACKY! And it gets worse ....just before Halloween, they take rags and tie them at intervals across the chicken wire. I presume that is so the children can better see the tacky fence and not trip on it when they trick or treat. Not hat many people bother to come down to my house now that the fence goes up. And wouldn't you know, the maple tree in our front yard is one of the last trees in the neighborhood to drop it's leaves so that fence stays up too long. Now I know all my gardening and farming friends are saying SO WHAT? We use that kind of fence all the time. Well, I have used it as well- for back yard gardens too - but not in a nicely landscaped area out front, next to the sidewalk. I know it is not the end of the word and actually sometimes I do sympathize with them because the neighbors across the street rarely clean up their leaves and because a road runs perpendicular to the next door neighbors front yard, the wind come sweeping down the street and blows all the leaves over there (and here). We deal with it too because long after the trees are bare, those leaves end up in my garden and garage - ALL WINTER and ALL SPRING! I don't mean a few leaves. I mean inches of them pile up against my front steps and blow into the garage making a mess. But I would never dream of putting that TACKY fence up. If that is the worst thing that happens between neighbors, we are lucky, right? Some other neighbors think I should say something. If they had started this practice when I was younger and not so - um - mature - I might have said something and regretted it. But they only started it when the folks across the street moved in. I know my neighbors are getting older and it is harder to do that yard clean up. So with that in mind, my plan it is to just let it roll off my back. It's really ugly and tacky but it doesn't hurt me or our property. The rest of the neighbors all know it is not OURS, and now that I am blogging about it, so does the rest of the world! Okay, I feel better now for getting that off my chest! (EDITED: I guess I wasn't clear. By blogging, I got it off my chest, I did let it go and I never would hurt anyone by saying anything - especially since I know they are getting older. Heck DH and I are getting older too so we do understand. BTW, us raking for them is just not an option.)
And once again, the mail brought me a wonderful treasures!! No I didn't buy something or swap for something this time, this was just a very kind and generous surprise from a new online friend. Many times I have mentioned that I have our home photo albums over at Webshots. There is a nice group of prim gals and we have a great time chatting and admiring each other's homes and crafts. One of the newest members of this group is a sweet gal named Jill also know as PrimChick. Jill and I have a mutual admiration society going. She also lives in a split level home very similar in style to mine. We both have many of the same pieces and love the same type of colonial primitive decor. But there is a big difference between us - SHE MAKES HER OWN FURNITURE. I don't mean just simple shelves and candle holders either. She makes cabinets and her own pencil post bed even! I am so in awe of her talent. Click on PrimChick and you can go to her albums. You have to see the moldings she applied to her plain doors to make them look paneled. She did the same to some of her lower walls. OH and you have to check out the wonderfully prim table and chairs she made for her kitchen and that pencil post bed she made for the bathroom. She liked the plate rack in my kitchen and asked if she could copy it and she whipped it up in no time! Well, Jill got busy last week and made some new pieces for herself and she was very sweet and generous and made some for me as well. When I got home from errands yesterday, there was a box waiting for me and when I opened it up, I found these two delicious wooden surprises inside!
I love both the hanger and the whale tail shelf. They are so colonial!! I am going to put my Christening dress on the hanger but I am not sure where the shelf will go just yet so stay tuned. I'll have pics to show and tell next time. Thanks again Jill - you are so kind!
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I was over at the Black Sheep Prims Homeplace, the blog of my talented and sweet friend Lisa, and she mentioned she was at a little quilt shop the other day and got to chatting and mentioned her blog, and lo and behold the lady working there knew all about my blog!! How kewl is that! The shop is Thistle Bee Quilt Shoppe in Goldsboro, NC which is far from Behind My Red Door. I have been through there several times in the past on the way to a friend who lived in Greensboro. So if you are the gal who chatted with Lisa, PLEASE do leave me a message and THANK YOU for visiting. You probably know by now I am not a quilter but truly admire those that do!! Your shoppe looks lovely - full of treasures!!
This post is running long so I am going to save my few Halloween decor pics for next time as well. Thanks so much for sticking with me and listening to me gripe about the fence and as always for all your sweet comments. You enrich my life and I so missed everyone when my computer was down for the count.
Until next time - hugs, Linda



41 kind folks clicked here to leave me a message:
Linda,
I'm glad your computer is working again....I'm having a hard time using my son's laptop. i don't know what it is about these keys but I really find myself on the wrong ones quite often! I'm sure you enjoyed your visits with family over the weekend and they enjoyed being with you in your lovely home. I would feel the same as you about the fence...don't think you've been griping--that's what blogging friends are for! The hanger and the shelf are great. That was very sweet of Jill.
Oh Linda, you are such a sweetie!
I didnt see your post til this morning then I made myself sick with worry! I just figured it would make itself around so I didnt think anyone would be singled out, not my intention either. Just wanted to admire all of the awesome blogs and bring them a smile!
I think you should say something to your neighbor. Whats it going to hurt? They shouldnt take any offense to it if they realize that it is hurting you more than anything. Thats a tough situation, if it were me - I would say something. I have neighbors to the left of us who have a huge barn with 6 junk cars behind and other scrap metal AND garbage ALL over. I got sick of looking at the scrap and their garbage blowing over so I called her up and told her just how I felt, picking up their garbage was getting old. They havent cleaned up any and Im not sure they ever will but at least they know how I feel now!
LOVE your hanger and shelf:)
where i live when i see those fences go up--it means a snowfence. we also put those ugly things up when we lived in the country, to contain the snow so it would be less for shoveling in certain areas.
where i live when i see those fences go up--it means a snowfence. we also put those ugly things up when we lived in the country, to contain the snow so it would be less for shoveling in certain areas.
I'm glad that your computer is working again. Isn't that the most infuriating thing? You wonder what we did before computers? LOL
How cool that someone out there knew about your blog :) That's really neat!
I love your needle punch! It's very cute. I almost picked up a small kit to try at Michael's one day but it just wasn't Prim enough for me and I told myself I needed to get caught up a bit first! LOL Like that will EVER happen?!
I'm sorry about your neighbors. We don't have many trees in our yard but end up cleaning up leaves from others for some time. Honestly, my neighbors don't worry about leaves at all so we have realized it doesn't do us any good to try and keep them cleaned up. We'll be working for nothing because they just keep blowing and dropping. My FIL is obsessive about it and I just laugh at him because no sooner does he get the whole driveway cleaned than it's time to do it again. Anyway, I guess what I'm saying is that I would probably just let the dang leaves lay there when I get older instead of taking the time and effort to put up a fence. Besides, what about the ones that fall over the fence or blow over the fence? LOL
Have a great day!
Leslie
Linda, I love the needle punch you did~ I'd love to try doing one of those sometime! I probably wouldn't say anything about the fence~ but that's just me:-) What a wonderful surprise to get the hanger and the shelf in the mail~ those are wonderful! I look forward to seeing your Halloween decor!
Janae
Oh Linda....I could write a book about neighbors that aggravate you...but I won't! My experience with living next door to people that do things that bother us has been quite a learning process. And what I have found is, it is never worth the trouble that begins after you complain, compared to the aggravation you feel about that problem before you complained! Does that make sense? I have found that no matter how well you think you know a neighbor, once you have an issue with something that they do, they turn into the neighbor from hell! Sometimes it is just not worth the outcome. ~Beth~
Linda ~ I love your needle punch. I love stars anyway. It's nice that you get to spend sometime with your inlaws. As far as the fence, I probably wouldn't say anything, either. I'm just not that way and I hate to cause problems that could develop down the road. I got the 2 crow towels like yours this am & love them.
Pam
Linda,
Thank you for your kind words about my quilt shoppe. It was great meeting Lisa and finding we had so much in common and both love your blog and the look you have achieved in your house. I do love what you have done with your house.
Mary Ellen
That fence would drive me crazy too, but I think I would be quiet about it...sometimes things like that turn into very, very ugly things...and you still have to live next door to them.
Congratulations on your award! You deserve it thats for sure!!:0) Glad your computer is up and running again, so is mine!! Isn't it nice when you have your own computer?!!! I love your goodies you got from your friend she does such great work!! And your inlaws look so sweet and adorable glad you were able to have some time with them! As far as your neighbors it too would drive me nuts!! I like things to look just right and this would make me not happy too!! Hope you have a very Blessed day!!~Wendy
Linda, i'm so glad your computer is back up and running, be sure to thank your DH for it to. For you see I just love to visit with you, that is what it feels like when I come to your blog. Like I an visiting an old dear friend. You punch project is so sweet, I have wanted to try one but just like Leslie i haven't found one prim enough to do.
Sorry to hear of your yard issues, I know you will deal with it the way that is best for you. Your home is beautiful regardless.
Hi,
This is my first visit to your blog, but I am adding you to my Rss Feed, cause I HAVE to read more:)
I surely understand about the leaves thing, and your neighbours, I have the same problem with their leave blowing into the steps/garage/porch too!
I would probably want to sneak over and pull out that ugly fence in the middle of the night...gross! I have used them in my backyard to keep the bunnies out of the carrots, but come on people, never in the front yard.
I also love webshots, and have a kazillion pictures on there.
Anyhow, sorry to run on, just wanted to say HI from Peterborough Ontario, and drop in and visit (my blog that is...well you could come to see me at home, but thats a bit too far to drive), I'll be back to root on through all your posts and look at some more of your eye candy.
Trudy
Hey, first time reader here, sure hope you can figure out a solution to your "ugly fence" problem.
Linda,
After viewing you webshots I must say you deserve your reward. I am impressed with your frozen meals, they sound delicous. Thanks for sharing them. Your star NP project turned out so nice. The frame you purchased looked very nice. I have used a hoop. I know your frustration about the fence, these issues are tough. I wish there was a perfect solution, I guess it speaks to there ability to really be able to rake them up. I hope you feel better about sharing and the perfect solution is found. What a special treat the hanger and whale shelf are.
Fall blessings, Carrie
I agree with Carol, I wouldn't say anything for fear that what comes out of the situation could be very very much worse. heck that thing could be left up for the whole year or worse could go up. 7 or so weeks is enough, but the ramifications could just be worse.
I doubt it makes that much difference in leaf removal but it makes them feel better.
I'm glad your computer is up and running...I always love reading your blog:) Your needlepunch looks great! And I look forward to seeing more pictures of your house all decorated for Halloween - I'm sure it looks awesome as always! Sorry about your neighbors too - I probably wouldn't say anything, but that's just me so..do what you feel is right. Oh and one last question - and you may not even know - I'm going to Myrtle Beach this weekend for a short trip. I've been there MANY times, but I've never looked for any prim shops. Since I see that your inlaws live right outside of there, do you know of any good shops in the area? Please let me know if there are...I would love to check some out if there are any there! Have a wonderful day! <3Lauren
So glad that your computer is back up and running, I know how frustrated you were!! Hope it doesn't crash again, for your sake and David's :o)
As bad as you dislike the fence, I don't think I would say anything...but that's just me.
Love your np project, I just have to get my supplies out and give it another try...that is just soooo cute!!
Also love your new treasures from Jill! She is just so talented and has done a great job decorating her home...lucky you to have some of her originals.
hugs, kathy
Hi Linda, It's me again!
I am sorry-but-I think I posted my comment twice...?? who knows...maybe it was 3 times...LOL...
I don't know why, but when I try to leave a comment for you, it appears as if it didn't go through...so I try again...LOL...and again.....hopefully this one went through...cuz I am only trying ONCE! :)
So SORRY!
*hugs*
-Kath
Hey Linda! Congrats on your award!Jenn is an amazing lady! We have been friends for a long time and she never ceases to amaze me! I got it too and I did pass it to a few new friends this time, but I also plan to follow your lead about the awards. I just wanted to be able to gift my new blogging friends at least once before I stopped. LOL!
I love your new goodies! How nice of your friend to make them for you! Those are the best surprises!
And I'm so glad that your hubby was able to fix your computer. I don't know what I'd do if I couldn't stop in and admire your wonderful home. Your blog is one of my all-time favorites!
About the fence, I don't know what I'd do. I feel your pain though!
Have a great evening!
Maybe you could say to your neighbors, "You know, putting up that fence each year must be a lot of hard work. Instead of doing that, maybe we could help you with the leaves that blow into your yard" and then maybe you could find some neighborhood children to rake them up or something?
Just a thought. =)
oh love the dog, so adorable..
you always get such lovely things..
Glad your computer is working..
have a lovely rest of the week..
Linda,
Well...I have been here three times today! LOL This is time #4! I tried to leave you a comment earlier a couple times, thought they prolly went through (hence my above comment!) But I see they didn't....So, I'm back again....Just 'tryin' to tell ya that I loved your needle punch, and the gifts your friend, Jill made for you. She did a really nice job. That was so thoughtful. Your freezer dishers for winter sound so Yummy!
Congrats on your award too!
I love visiting your blog! I try to stop by as much as I can...It's a fun place to visit!
I hope this post makes it to ya! :)
Thanks for visiting my blog...It means a lot to me!
-Have a wonderful evening, *hugs*
-Kath
love the stitchery!!
i wouldnt say anything to the neighbors either. unless of course, i was going to offer to rake if they left it down. but thats just me. :) maybe buy them some new stakes?? i understand their reasoning. especially if they are getting up there in age. my aunt and uncle kept a meticulous lawn when they were able. as they got older and couldnt take care of things, my uncle would set at the window and cry over the fact he felt useless to keep the yard neat as a pin.
many hugs to you and the neighbors,.
p.s. glad the comp. is fixed.
You know that fence is not really a big deal. Your neighbors mean well trying to contain the leaves and make clean-up easier. Their friendship and goodneighborlyness (is that a word?) is worth the small seasonal agravation. Let it go!
Your home is a gem and admired by us all as are your beautiful projects. Thanks for sharing the beauty of it all.
Why not hang some grapevine wreaths over the sticks and broom handles to prim your side up? Maybe that would make it a little more bearable for you?
I love your NP! Stars are one of my favorite things too.
The face on that little puppy is sooo cute! My girlfriend has a female with freckles, and her name is Ginger. Great dogs!
That fence would be bug me too, but like the others, I doubt if I would say anything.
I love the whale tail shelf! I am so jealous! I've always wanted to be able to make things like that.
Glad your computer is back up.
Mine is going to the Dr. soon. It's been acting weird.
Take Care!
Terry
You sure did cover the good (company, and some new surprise goodies), the bad (your computer woes!), and the ugly (that fence!!!), Linda! Such a fun post to read. I feel all caught up now and I hope things are back in balance at your house.
Ugh! That fence is horrible, but I have seen worse! Its nice to see you back on here blogging, Im going to through your Fall decor pics again, its such a treat!
Your inlaws are very precious too :)
Stephanie
Hi Linda,
Thanks for stopping by, always glad to see when you leave a comment.
I probably wouldn't say anything it will be getting cold and no one will be out to really see it, I could see if they had it in the warmer months that would really upset me then, but like some ladies have said the after effects could be worse.
Your in-laws seem like such nice people and their dog is so cute.
I also love the star you are needle punching...I'll have to try it one day, right now I'm just try ing to perfect the penny rug I'm doing, hopefully I can then start on the pattern you sent:)
Have a great evening.
Rondell
Okay, I think I have found my new love. Needle point! Oh Linda I love what you made. I am seriously going to look into doing that. I need something I can take to appointments and such with me!
Now about the neighbor...Is there anyway DH can put something up that is not as tacky before they do next year? This is one of the reasons we want to live in the country. We have a neighbor that just got divorced and he has let his yard go to weeds. Funny thing is we live in a new home developement with a homeowners association (never doing that again) -Yet have they done anything about his yard? No, of course not. Okay I feel better too getting that off my chest! :)
Have a great rest of the week!
Robin~♥
I never know where to start with my comment for you. There is always so much to talk about! lol
First of all, I hope and pray that your daughter finds a job real soon. That has got to be hard on her. Crossing my fingers...
Your needle punch is coming along great! That is one thing I would like to learn. I learned how to rug hook a few years ago...I wish I had more time to do it.
How great to have the in-laws in town. They look right at home along with Andy. :)
And I don't know what to say about that fence. I know people around here put them up kind of by their drive ways sometimes here in town when the winter comes to prevent drifts...but nothing like that. Your neighborhood sounds like my town. People are cordual to one another but we have lived here for over 6 years and don't "know" too many people. I call it the twilight zone sometimes. But my little town is a bedroom community, so people go to work and come back home, I guess.
And wow, Jill sent you a wonderful surprise! I know your will find the perfect spots for them! Internet friends are just so kind and generous!
I think I would let the fence thing go. I know about an eye sore neighbor TRUST ME!!! That is minor to what I put up with.
You got some great goodies!!!
Mary
Hey Linda glad your cpu is up and running again! I know what you mean about neighbors.Ours across the road decided to put cows in there's so he wouldnt have as much to mow.I just hope this summer they dont smell,LOL! I would prolly talk to them.Maybe suggest raking for them(since they are older)in exchange for taking the fence down.I know it would be just one more thing to do but it might help them and you at the same time.IDK,just an idea.Well thanx for posting,luv looking at your blog,Sherri :o)
I was just going to mention that I have a laptop and we had to get a cordless mouse because I HATE running my finger over that thing to move the arrow around. It drove me nuts, lol!!! Now I can love with this laptop.
Laura :)
My, my ... so much going on at your place. Seems it just that time of year for lots of wonderful things to happen. Almost magical, isn't it?
Sorry about that fence. I think fallen leaves are just lovely. Too bad those folks can't see their beauty as well.
Love your needlepunch! I just bought a special hoop and frame to help me with my project. I was having difficulty holding up the hoop but maybe now I'll actually get to finish my first project. Yours is inspiring!
Smiles,
Lea
Hello Linda!
Don't you just hate computer problems! I'm all in favor of you getting a new one, but that's just me.
I have never tried needlepunch, but I bought a needlepunch at the craft store the other day. I need to find weavers cloth (I think that's what the pattern said) but haven't been out to the ONE fabric store we have in our town.
I would probably let the fence ride. My grandmother put something similar up when I got hard for her to do leaves.
Blessings
Linda
Hey Linda! Me again! I can't believe I forgot to mention your beautiful punchneedle project! You did awesome! Nobody wuold ever believe it was your first one!
About the coffee mug cake, I also thought it was too much oil, so I only put half in it and it turned out just fine. So I cheated, but it didn't hurt it. I actually cringed when I first saw that! LOL! I bet you could even use a little mayo in place of it. My Mama used to do that if she was short on oil when making a big cake. It might even take the place of the eggs too! Hmmmmm...now I'm going to have to try it again! LOL!
Have a nice evening!
What is it with neighbors and fences? LOL You KNOW I would understand ;)
(((hugs)))
rue
Gee whiz...I meant I can LIVE with this laptop......no lovin' goin' on with this thing, lol!!
Laura :)
Andy is one cute pup!!
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